Love should be free from mind games.

But it seems like the people you have devoted yourself to see you as the perfect game. That's part of what tells you something about that person isn't right. Listen to those little gut feelings. 

Vacation from life

Aint nothin gonna break my stride

Interesting article citing information about these kids

Well here we go again...

I just saw a bag packed in her room. Ugh.

Hahaha

So this time she leaves this letter and says shit about me taking two shots to be happy enough to be around her, well damn right I took a couple shots before we went to pick you up! Most people drink before a flight, I had to travel with my own personal sociopath. Damn right I needed a drink. You my dear are the sad one. This entire crazy adolescent journey would be normal. Peeing on your sister's bath toys and watching her play with and put them in her mouth and drink out of them for years- that is not. Strangling a neighbor's cat is not. It's the satanic murderous poetry that makes me worried. Not your grades.

Wow.

I can't believe this crazy crap. She called and says the parents of her friends said she needed to ask if she could come home, I was like "you could have come home at any point, you were the one who left!" Then we picked her up, went out for hotdogs and got a cupcake in town, nobody lectured or yelled there weren't consequences... We get home and forty minutes later she was gone again. Tied the dog up and left. What is really bizarre is the way she writes these "goodbye" letters- like she's in a movie reading a script. It's like interacting with this candy coated empty shell coated in arsenic. Because she says these things from the pretend persona she panders out to people, but is all fake. Like a celebrity its this idea she thinks people will buy into and take pity on then Bam! She screws them like a fresh prison inmate. Kill the family pet... Hurt their younger child.... Lie, Steal, destroy their property... She is convincing at first. But true colors shine on that one- boy do they shine.

And 72 hrs and 15 minutes later !BOOM! She calls.

15 minutes over the 72 hr mark,  we hear The youngling's voice..... 72 hrs was all I needed to get in that program my dear.....

Disappearing Act

Youth at Risk Info for parents in need of consequences for their child

This is for families in Washington State, but the key is to look up these programs in your own states...

We found the Best Info for Parents like us!

So we've been looking up and researching this for six months... and we came upon some information about a website for at risk youth who basically reign in the child by imposing a consequence (goes to Juvenile Detention or community service) If you're scared of the child hurting someone in the home and are threatening the family or who have run away and had been gone 72 hours or more, you are eligible to be part of this program. The amazing part is where if you don't do what you're supposed to do if you don't get good grades if you do something wrong that's against The court order they take you to juvenile detention or order community service or even fine them if they had a job. I will put all the info on the blog. I hope it can help others as I am ready for it to reign in our personal nightmare.